
Age and Maturity
While there’s no specific age when a child is ready to be home alone, most experts suggest that children under 12 may lack the maturity needed for this responsibility. Evaluate your child’s ability to follow rules, handle unexpected situations, and make sound decisions. Maturity is more crucial than age.

Talk to your child about their feelings about staying home alone. If they express fear or anxiety, it might be best to wait. On the other hand, if they feel confident and show enthusiasm, it’s a positive sign.
Safety Knowledge
Ensure your child knows basic safety procedures. They should know how to lock and unlock doors, use the phone, and contact emergency services. Discuss what to do in case of a fire, a stranger at the door, or a power outage. Role-playing different scenarios can be a helpful way to assess their readiness.
Communication Skills
Your child should be able to clearly communicate with you and others. They should know how to always reach you and be comfortable calling a neighbor or relative if needed. Ensure they understand the importance of checking in and responding promptly to your calls or messages.
Duration and Frequency
Consider how long and how often your child will be alone. Start with short periods, gradually increasing the time as they become more comfortable and capable. Frequent, short intervals can help build their confidence and experience.
Household Rules
Establish clear rules about what is and isn’t allowed when they are home alone. Discuss expectations regarding cooking, having friends over, using electronics, and completing homework or chores. Consistent routines and rules provide structure and security.
Trial Runs
Begin with supervised trial runs where you’re nearby or reachable. Leave for short periods while monitoring their behavior and reactions. Gradually extend the time away as they prove their readiness.
Assessing if your child can stay home alone involves a combination of evaluating their maturity, ensuring they have the necessary skills, and building their confidence through gradual exposure. By taking these steps, you can make an informed decision that ensures their safety and your peace of mind. For more helpful tips, refer to our Child Action, Inc. handout, Latchkey children: How old is old enough?